Calluses can help
on fingers, but not on hearts.
Leather hovers here.
Calluses can help
on fingers, but not on hearts.
Leather hovers here.
Did you know I’ve never fainted, I muttered.
But, you asked, What about the time
you said his words collided with your skull
and you felt yourself drop to the floor, unable
to get back up?
Ah yes, I said, that was
wishful thinking.
To obliterate a moment with sheer will,
to dive into denial by flipping a switch, turning off
the world. No, I’ve been entirely too conscious
this entire time. Wide awake, absorbing it all –
I can barely blink.
So, when his words slapped my skull, I cursed
my strong heart, blood pressure, good constitution.
It would have been nice to hit the rest button, if only
for a moment. To lend appropriate gravity
to the occasion.
Because I still eat, brush my teeth, shower, walk around.
Looking at me is not like looking at the results
of plate tectonics – no one could tell upon inspection
that I am
a rift,
an earthquake,
a tsunami,
a mountain range
thrust up from the molten depths
of this life. No one can tell what power made me –
I look ordinary
as anything. I can’t even faint.
My mother lives
in Chartrons, just outside
the center of Bordeaux. I moved
with my father to America when
I was five and have just recently
moved back
after graduating
to find work.
I tried to keep up
with my French and visited
every few years, but am far from
fluent anymore.
I am living here for an indefinite period of time.
Well, today,
I guess I mowed the lawn.
I guess I read Mary Oliver.
I guess I meditated for 5 minutes
(excepting when the squirrels in the yard started fighting and I got distracted).
I guess I haven’t cried that much.
I guess I did some sit-ups.
I guess I only watched 3 movies.
I guess, I guess, I guess.
I felt the silence growing
between us. Like he was stopping up
all his dopamine and oxytocin and
electrons
with corks
so none could get all over me – over us.
What’s odd is that the second he said we
weren’t right for each other, he made it
true. Up until then, it had been up in the air
siding on the
already-planning-our-first-dance-at-the-wedding.
I am so much, but mostly, right now, I am tired.
I am so tired of dragging him along, trying to lead
by example with my kisses and affectionate
tone. He didn’t want to give me any
back.
So let the door fall shut, heavy,
clinking with finality.
They say a window opens
but I’ll be damned if I don’t bust out through
one of the walls.
Kick through, because for so long I’ve just been
*this*
shy of right for another person and I’ve always been just
*this*
close to losing
my mind over it. I said once I didn’t pity
lovers who fell apart and I still don’t – no self-pity here. More like
self-get-your-shit-together-or-else.
I’m sorry, old friend.
I’m sorry that I couldn’t let my imagination
leave you damn well alone,
sorry that I couldn’t just take you
for who you were
and what you had to offer me. I wanted
more and I took more, and what could you do but
run away? Some days, now,
I come to understand that we were never
meant to be together.
Oh, but other days,
other days I remember
the night that I said I didn’t want
to go back inside,
the evening was so beautiful,
and you told me
we didn’t have to.
You made us gin and tonics
and we wandered over to a big tree
to watch the sun
go down.
We leaned on it together, laughed
and pretended to ignore the way our shoulders
rubbed together.
I remember that day, and something inside of me
still cannot understand how you aren’t here with me, now.
Half of me saw the way you leaned back, away from me.
The other half saw the look in your eye, that was uninhibited and true.
You loved me.
I know you did.
I tell myself you didn’t but you must have, because
I can’t be living the way I am now
off the steam of a completely
unrequited love,
can I?
Either way, I’m sorry, old friend.
You were the best one I’d had in ages,
and while you ripped that away from me one
Saturday morning, I can’t lay the blame
at your feet.
I don’t know where they are, love.
I went to write the song
of our love.
Only to find it had already been written.
Years ago.
The song plumbed the depths of our souls, whispered
with violin, with cello, the beauty lying there.
Lyrics evoking Scottish highlands, cherry blossoms.
They were lakeside in New Hampshire, the minor key mirrors
the late night conversations, the Tolstoy novel.
How then, dear, can I love you uniquely?
Someone has already captured it so well. How can my
heart
be so arrogant as to mourn that love?
It has been written, played, recorded, and sold. We are not
a secret sound, an undiscovered chord.
She saw you on the street.
I always thought it would be me.
She saw you and spoke to you and heard
your voice.
Calling me after to tell about it, her description
was lacking. She said,
it was weird and that you were uncomfortable.
Oh, but I wanted to hear about the tendrils of hair that fall
in front of your ears. I wanted to know what shade of blue
your eyes flicked to when they recognized her. I hungered to know
the length of your stubble that moment.
Are you still so tall? Do you button your flannels all the way up?
Do the cuticles of your nails still indicate neglect born from a love
of anything but yourself?
Hearing secondhand that you still exist out there –
receiving confirmation that I did not invent you in 2010 as a lovely
daydream.
It was a hip replacement surgery – it was triple bypass. It was lobotomy.
Ripping sutures that should have been left, slicing with precision to expose
what had been damaged. Probing into what had begun to
heal.
I sit, swollen with those memories and the scent of pollen
struggling to breathe under the weight of so much
time.
I remember the day that you told me
it was over. We stood in the kitchen – I was making soup.
You didn’t lean down, kept you head tall
just your eyes shifted to mine and you said
it was over.
I expected, then, a swell of music. An orchestra
of mourning cellos. Some sort of syncopated sound to
puncture my ears same as my heart.
I expected the movies – that life would add drama
to my pain, make it feel heroic.
The silence hit me harder than a mournful violin.
The silence and the way I noticed the floor was dirty.
You turned and walked away, leaving me collapsed
up against the cupboard.
It’s all been silence since.
I’m all rubble.
I am fragments left for a distracted boy to kick down the street
while he pops his bubble gum
on the way to the baseball game.
The same dirt that grinds into his knee
as he slides across home, brushing me off.
I am dust picked up by the air,
tossed through screen doors, soon
brushed out again
by exasperated mothers.
I’m the grime the working man
scrubs off his boots on Sundays –
sitting on his porch watching his children play in the dirt
I was piled into by a bulldozer
to clear space.